Connection… from the flip side

I’ve been looking through my blog for the past few days which has been making me smile quite a bit.

This particular blog entry caught my eye:

Reading this entry with where I am today – it’s also very true today as a dominant.  

This past weekend I played with my boy john, the hardest we’ve played to date, at Rough House.

I could easily say that the world around us disappeared for me, and I know it did for him.  We connected at a much deeper level than we had before and it was hot.

Connection.  Important for both the sub and the dom.

Looking at a few others posts like this one, where I say, “I’m not much of a masochist and probably less of a sadist” – BAHAHAHA!

As for being a masochist – somewhat true – while I like a good flogging, TT and CBT I’m not much into pain as a bottom. I’m more of a service bottom.

As for being a sadist – I’ve learned that I can be evil and do like to dish out some torture – Imagine that, a giving a good hard flogging, TT an CBT. 😈