ACT – Safer BDSM/Jeux ‘kinky’ plus sécuritaires

Two years ago, The AIDS Commitee of Toronto put together the “safer sex guide you can jack off to” as we like to call it here in Toronto.

BDSM: Safer Kinky Sex guide is a WONDERFUL resource (and hot too) that ACT put together on considerations for practicing safer BDSM.  This is, I believe, the fourth edition of the guide.

As of today, the guide is now available in French!

Check it out:

Ordering from CATIE (Canadian AIDS Treatment Information Exchange):

PDF version (Free!):

 

SEASON FINALE! Last Rough House & Leather Market until September!

ROUGH HOUSE. A perverted afternoon dungeon-social-cum-house-party!

SUNDAY, MARCH 27, 2011
1pm-5pm. Goodhandy’s (120 Church St @ Richmond)

* LEATHER MARKET returns with new merchandise & great deals
* Eastern Canada Leatherboy 2011 iain gets a FLOGGING & CBT
* International LeatherSIR 2009 Tony Palazzo walks the dog
* SUSPENSION by IrrationalMachine
* MASTER R
* ELECTRO on a first-timer
* WATERSPORTS service with the mysterious urinal man
* Dungeon Friskiness * Special Surprises
* Cool Music by Dan * Cash Bar

ADMISSION: $10, proceeds to ECLSb travel fund

Watch for additional details about happenings at specific events
at http://www.LeatherSirCanada.com

What’s gone on at past Rough House events?

* Saline * Bondage * CBT * Percussion Play * Pumping * Rope Play * Sounds *
Electro * Fisting * Shopping * Suspension * And the now infamous ‘Ass
Plinko’

Check out past Rough House pix at these links:

Hope to see you there!

Last Rough House until September – Leather & Gear Sale ~ Sun Mar 27

SEASON FINALE!
Last Rough House & Leather Market until September

ECLSb IS GEARING UP FOR A LEATHER SALE!
Cool gear. Great prices. Donations gratefully accepted!

Get a head start on spring cleaning the dungeon! Cull your toy box and old
gear/clothes tucked in the back of your closet…

In with your new gear and toys! Out with the old!

LEATHER & GEAR SALE @ ROUGH HOUSE
Sunday, March 27
1pm-5pm.
Goodhandy’s (120 Church St at Richmond)
Admission: $10
More info: www.LeatherSirCanada.com

ALL PROCEEDS BENEFIT THE 2011 ECLSb TRAVEL FUND.

DONATIONS APPRECIATED! Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy is gratefully
accepting donations of all types of leather/gear/fetish wear and toys (new & used)
for the ECLSB Leather & Gear Sale. No items are too big or too small!

For more information or to arrange a donation drop-off or pick-up, please email Brandon at Brandon@LeatherSirCanada.com

PLEASE, CLEAN OUT YOUR CLOSET & DUNGEON!
Lots of young bargain hunters new to the scene depend on the kindness of strangers!

Invading MILSb

Master Chuck, International Leatherboy 2010 boy Ian and I drove over 1,000 km between Toronto, Hamilton, Detroit and Canton to attend Michigan LeatherSIR/Leatherboy competition held at the Hayloft Saloon.

We picked up ILSb Ian around 1:15pm and we were soon on our way stopping along the way.

It took a good hour to get through Customs.  Ever since being pulled over at Port Huron a few years ago, I’ve always preferred to take the Ambassador Bridge.  I’ll take Port Huron if it really makes sense to take that route.

We dropped Ian off at the hotel, and Sir and I were off to drop our stuff off with my former boy, and a boy who is currently in a mentoring relationship with Sir.

We got to the Hayloft on time for the first part of the contest – scenes.  Rather than going with a fantasy scene, the boys were put through an actual play scene.

First up boy Jeff with Sir Merrill putting the boy through a shrink wrap bondage scene and then using flash cotton twice on the boy.  Very hot – literally and figuratively.  Such a hot furry boy!

Next was boy Jim with his partner Bob who apparently had shown up “unprepared” to do a scene, and Bob put him in his place for showing such disrespect to the organizers.  A nice hot ass turned red with audience participation!  *GRIN*

That was a lot of fun!

Soon after, Sir, decked out in His brown leathers, wanted to head over to the R&R Saloon to check things out.  I believe it was his first time there.  Soon after, I broke His White Castle virginity (He was more interested in the conveyor belt system than the burgers LOL!).

The next day we met up at the Hayloft for the interview portions.  Much thanks to Sir Merrill and the team behind MILSb for the goodies in thanks for our time.  Totally not expected, thank You!

I must say thank you to International LeatherSIR 2010, Sir Hugh.  Two of the questions I have were inspired by Him.  “BARK”!

International Pizza Deliverboy Ian

The other judges included Trooper (Head Judge),  Bryon Hayes (Mr. Leather Michigan 2010), Ms. Pandora – who I had worked with on LLC XIV; and International Leatherboy 2010, Ian, who was representing not only service but also Pizza Delivery boys as International Pizza Deliverboy 2011 – Hot n’ Ready as evidenced by the picture to the right. *GRIN*

I can’t forget to mention the ever so hot, the Bearish, Mr. Michigan Leather David German as Tally Master.  *DROOL*

Special thanks to Master Chuck for His time taking photos for us during both the interviews and also during the contest.

A couple of hot Leatherboys – Jim (left) and Jeff (right)

Later that night was the final stage of the contest – Speech, Leather Image and Jock; hosted by Mr. Friendly‘s Dad, Dave Watt.

But not without boy Ian and I belting out our rendition of “Losing My Mind” as inspired by Liza Minnelli and Pet Shop Boys; some Dead or Alive and Information Society’s “What’s on your mind (Pure Energy) – Specifically the 12” Club Mix for the judges.  Please don’t take our titles away!

I gotta say, the boys are hot!  One fur ball (YUM!) and one rambunctious muscle-Bear-pup-boy (YUM!).

In the end:

  • boy Jim won the title of Michigan Leather boy – congratulationss and good luck at Great Lakes LeatherSir/Leatherboy!!!!
  • boy Jeff put himself in front of a community that took notice, and he has made some amazing new contacts both in Michigan and in Toronto.  A great learning experience for him and we look forward to seeing him on his journey in leather, but also representing Leatherboys in the near future.
  • International Leather boy Ian got a good flogging by Dave Watt and Sir Merrill (HOT!)
  • A rather hot Michigan title holder got mauled by a couple of Leather Bears from Canada.  Can’t think who was involved. *GRIN*

Thank you Detroit and Michigan for a great weekend!

Detroit’s Leather scene is undergoing a huge rebuilding exercise given not only the economy in the United States but also just the general economy of Detroit and Michigan over the past few years.

Detroit forms an important part of my Leather upbringing given my second boy was from Detroit.  I was also invited to co-chair the Leather Leadership Conference XIV Great Lakes/Ontario building a bridge between Michigan and Ontario; Detroit and Toronto.

The Detroit Leather Community has had its share of setbacks and struggles over the past several years—many of the bars that supported us have closed; our leather clubs are facing dwindling memberships; less and less of our Community members are going out anymore. To many inside and outside our Community, it appears that Detroit has no Leather Community anymore. We know this is not the reality of the situation and it is time we came together to prove it—to show everyone that the Detroit Leather Community is still alive and strong.

I am happy to support LeatherUNITED which will be held on Saturday, April 2, 2011 from 9 AM to 1 AM at the Kinkdom, 3650 Michigan Avenue, Detroit, MI, next to Hygrade Restaurant & Deli.  LeatherUNITED is not a fundraiser. Leather UNITED is not a bar night. LeatherUNITED is an invitation to all of the Detroit Leather Community and their friends to come together and support that which we love.

Next trip for Sir and me: CLAW – And by the way, the Friday of CLAW (April 29th) is my birthday.  I sense a fundraiser. *GRIN*

The Judges

Mr. Michigan Leather 2011

With boy matt – North American Boot Black 2008

The Canadia(i)ns

(top) Bryon Hayes, Ms. Pandora, Trooper, David German (bottom) boy iain, boy Jim, boy Ian

ECLSb 2011 have left the building

Ms. Michigan Leather/Michigan LeatherSIR/Leatherboy/Community Bootblack – This weekend

International Leatherboy 2010 Ian (aka Ian V1.0 and The first cumming of Ian – Ian is also Eastern Canada Leatherboy 2010) and I (Iain V2.0 aka the second cumming of Iain) are taking a roadtrip together to a great weekend – Ms. Michigan Leather, Michigan LeatherSIR/Leastherboy and Michigan Community Bootblack.

Michigan has definitely played a part in my Leather upbringing.  Specifically my former boy, matt, who is also North American Bootblack 2008 (incidentally also the last NABB) is from the Detroit area and as a result my partner, Scott, and I spent a lot of time in the Detroit area.

Dan, aka the Twisted Teddybear, and I were also co-chars of the Leather Leadership Conference XIV Great Lakes/Ontario working very closely with a number of local Michigan Leather folks to build the first internationally hosted and run LLC.

I’m definitely looking forward to visiting Detroit this weekend!

 

A brief history of piss

I’ve been pissing on myself since I was a kid.

There I said it.  That was the start of me being kinky and this is the one thing I started early.

My britches with a yellow stripe on the right. Flagging, proudly, as a piss bottom.

In May 1996, I stayed with a very hot Bear in London, a total furball, a Canadian now living in the UK who was breaking my 10 month not-self imposed abstinence from sex.  His neighbours were a VERY hot Bearish couple who were kinky – Leather, rubber, piss, you name it.  Me?  I was a fairly naive Bearish guy hungry for anything and I was horny as hell.

Well my piss play with other guys does not start there, but I was intrigued and I thought the guys were hot. I was also quite judgemental.  Scott and I had gone back to the UK in 2001, Scott’s first time in the UK and I remember saying something about, “Oh they’re in to piss” in a rather judgemental way.  Despite the fact that I had been pissing on myself since I was 8 years old or so.  I have to admit, I’m embarrassed by my behaviour at that time, and in some respects I do let it haunt me.  Since that time, I have grown up and learned considerably.  And hey, I’m now part of the converted.

It wasn’t until 2004 during my first weekend with Master Chuck that we were out at Zig’s, the one and only gay bar in Sudbury, Ontario; and he passed me a bottle of his finest piss.  I had a grin that said, “No body knows I’m drinking my Sir’s recycled beer piss out of a beer bottle at this bar”.

After finishing the bottle, we were back at his place when I finally had a chance to taste His piss straight from the source – and it tasted like buttered popcorn, I kid you not.  And yes, I’m hard thinking about it.

I think my favourite piss moment was standing outside the bar in Sudbury, needing to take a piss, telling Sir and he told me to piss right there in the middle of the street.  Meanwhile redneck guys in pickup trucks were driving by and there’s a big wet mark going down the left-side of my jeans and a stream going down the road. *GRIN*

Piss pig in the cageAnother favourite moment was while Scott and I were living at the house I grew up at.  We were holding a housewarming party, and then a housewarming dungeon party for our kinky friends and Leather family.  I was put in a cage, chained up on my back, funnel to my mouth and pissed on by several people at the party.  That was fucking hot!  Especially Sir’s Leatherson who kept on pissing and pisssing and pissing and pissing on me.  Man he has a big bladder.

Sir’s recommended drinks include water, beer, cranberry juice, and root beer.  We tend to switch between drinks alternating with water, beer, and one of the others.  For cleaning out before a night of piss play, water and green tea can help.

Unless you’re a masochist or a sadist, coffee piss is not recommended for those who are piss bottom beginners.  As for me, I’d have no issue taking Sir’s coffee piss – yes I’m that dedicated to His piss.

One other thing you need to be careful of is what medications someone is on, if you’re going to drink.  The medication may be metabolized and excreted in urine which is then transferred to the sub through ingestion.  It can happen with antidepressants, HIV meds – pretty much anything foreign to the body.

Try taking a multivitamin – notice the colour of your piss a few hours later.  I don’t recommend drinking that either.

But hey, pissing on someone is always an option.

As for pissing in someone – you do have to be careful and there are a few good articles about the risks, out there.  Some factors include:

  • Cover up – while piss may be cleaner than spit, it’s not 100% sterile and you can still transfer STDs and even the meds you may be on.
  • Can you piss with a hard on?  Many guys can’t so how do you stay in?
  • Wounds and sores?  If you’ve just fucked or even fucked hard there may be open sores up your partner’s ass or on your cock. Again, don’t forget to cover up.
  • Don’t try to empty your whole bladder into someone.

And this is by no means a comprehensive list.

So there you go – a brief history of piss in my lifetime.