Monkey See, Monkey Do

Around the time I did the interview with PositiveLite, I was asked if I would be willing to write Op-Ed pieces. I said I would give it a try.

The result is the article I wrote about Bareback porn being played in our bathhouses in Toronto – a relative new trend I have noticed – and my passion for helping my fellow men remain STI-free while having good piggish sex lives.

Much thanks to Bob and Brian at PositiveLite and Master Chuck.

I’ll be re-posting the article here in a few months.

Crude Weekend + Catching Up

slave Scott, Sir Alan, Pup Nitro, boy iain

I’ve not had a chance to write much in my blog recently taking some much needed downtime for myself after ILSb, as well traveling for work to Bend OR, Portland OR and Atlanta GA.  The highlight of the trip to Atlanta was a chance to see Sir Alan (International LeatherSIR 2011), Pup Nitro (International Leatherboy 2011) and slave Scott (International Leather Handler 2011 – yes the men behind the International Titleholders should have their own title!).

Now on to Crude.

Master Chuck has a great blog entry on Crude with more pictures on His site.

The Golden Retrievers - Bear and Stomper

Crude is an event I hosted September 9th through 11th in co-operation with The Point Tent & Trailer Resort.  This is something the General Manager, Mike, and I had talked about for years.  And particularly appropriate as one of the late owners of the park was not only one of my former Mr. Bear Toronto Titleholders when I was involved in the Great Canadian Bearhunt, but Phil was also the first Bear I had met at The Toolbox and the first man I had ever met who was into rubber.  Hence my association and interest in being a gummi-bear.

I digress – the weekend was nothing short of amazing.

The weekend started Friday with a short opening ceremonies announcing the weekend as having started and a Bingo night in the rain.  As all of us had arrived later at the park than anticipated, we then put our tents up in the dark and rain.  After we hung out at the rec hall with local micro brew beer on pour courtesy of The Point, and some hot men.

Saturday started with our demos

  • Master Aaron from Maryland presented on fisting using Master Scott’s boy craig.  Master Aaron has been fisting ever since he came out and has the perfect sized hands for anyone interested in fisting for the first time.  His touch is also quite gentle which helps anyone hesitant to open up quickly.  When I first met Him 8 years ago, I challenged Master Aaron to make me cum without touching myself.  Unfortunately that didn’t happen, but He did play with my as for a good two hours.  So from experience, Master Aaron comes highly recommended.
  • Master R from Toronto added His flavour to the weekend by presenting outdoor bondage and play, as well as demonstrating the use of a zipper (several clothes pegs added to string).  Congratulations to boy aaron on his first weekend of service and for being Master R’s demo bottom.  Master R also did a flogging demo at the Slick Dance Party Saturday night.  Much thanks to Master R for participating.  Also, Master R makes some amazing play equipment.  For us big boys who can get rambunctious, Master R makes heavy, sturdy pieces.
  • Pegged and waxed.

    Master Chuck demonstrated to us the outdoor and brown-leather version of pegging.  Not to be confused with using a strap on, Master Chuck tied slave Eric down to the ground using pegs including tying up slave Eric’s nuts and proceeded to do a wax play and piss scene inviting the crowd to participate.

At each of the demos we had between twenty and thirty men!  This completely blew me away as I was figuring we would have between five to ten men watching.  So much thanks to everyone who did come out and participated.

The new fangled way to read a book at camp

The weekend had lots of time for relaxation too – spending time in the pool, reading, chilling and play – whatever you wanted to.

The Mexican Fiesta Party + Potluck held in honour of the original founders of The Point brought everyone in the park together for dinner.  A fitting end to the afternoon and much thanks to the organizers!

The evening came to a close with the Slick Dance Party in the Rec Hall and Master R’s flogging demo – among the screams of Master Scott’s boy nico going though his first piercing scene.  *GRIN*

Master Scott with boys craig, nico, slave kalen and boy iain

On a family note, congratulations to Master Scott on the collaring of his newest boy, boy nico – collared the Saturday afternoon of Crude.

Sunday came all too soon with a lovely breakfast spread put out by a number of the seasonals and the closing ceremonies.  In true run fashion we had certificates for the following:

  • Distance – For going that extra mile to be with us – Master Aaron (although it turns out someone showed up Sunday from Puerto Villarta)
  • Crude Pig – In recognition fo your piggish behaviour – boy nico
  • Helping Hands – You did more than fisting to help!! – boy kyle
  • Run Virgin – For allowing us to bust your cherry in the most crude way – boy aaron
  • Cool Whip – Your dollop of participation made our weekend… tasty…
    • Master Aaron + boy craig – Demo
    • Master R + boy aaron – Demo
    • Master Chuck + slave Eric – Demo
    • Sir Marc (Eastern Canada LeatherSIR 2010) and Master Noel – For help prior to the weekend
    • Mike Noel – The Point
    • Colin Mears – The Point
    • The hosts of the Mexican Fiesta Party
    • The hosts of the Sunday Breakfast
    • The Point Tent and Trailer Resort
    • Madame Heather – For loaning a number of supplies

My hope is that this could become an annual weekend that could be linked in with Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy and specifically hosted and co-arranged by whoever the Eastern Canada Leatherboy is for a particular year.  I know this event will happen again next year.

Again much thanks to Colin, Mike and everyone who made this weekend a success!  If you would like to participate, please let me know.

As Master Chuck about His pig

Canadian boys Love the Fleshjack and Edging too!

Several months ago I was asked by WildCuddler to write a review of the two Fleshjacks I ordered back in April.  Three months later, I’m finally posting this to my own blog.

I love sex and courtesy of Sir’s training and the influence of a number of friends who are into edging, a Fleshjack is a natural to add to any sex toy chest.  I am all about sexual stimulation, edging and blowing my load.  The thought of being tied up and edged with a Fleshjack and being told to hold off from shooting totally turns my crank!

I decided to purchase two Jacks in April when Fleshjack was offering the buy one Jack and get an Endurance Jackfree and also on recommendation.  Within three days, the jacks had shipped and arrived at my door in Canada.  Amazing for cross-border shopping, all for about the same price as shopping for one Fleshjack at your local porn shop.

I couldn’t wait unpack the jacks and get it on my cock.  You don’t want to  forget to take out the plastic tube from your jack when it first arrives – you might hurt your member.  I started with the Endurance jack.  Being uncut and having a very sensitive head, I was a bit nervous about how it would feel but after lubing up the hole, the inside of the Endurance Jack, and my cock, it was a fucking amazing ride.  I could hold off, get harder, jack and edge and repeat until I blew a huge load deep into the Fleshjack.  Be sure to use water-based lubes as others could deteriorate your toy.

Remember, if you’re going to blow your load in the jack, it becomes a one person toy.  Alternatively, you can use condoms but the Fleshjack Care and Usage Guide does specifically say the Fleshjack is designed to be a single person use only toy.

The Endurance Jack has “Stamina masturbation sleeve” is tight, so you feel it on your shaft, and features large bumps to stimulate your head and shaft.  If you can learn to hold off blowing your load, then imagine how it’ll feel when you hold off cuming while fucking or jacking off.

The Fleshjack Ice further enhances your experience by having different sensations for different kinds of stimulation, whether it’s for your head or shaft.  You get the added visual stimulation with the Fleshjack Ice being clear, so you can see your cock get harder, pulse and shoot a load deep for you to see.  Fucking hot!

Between both the sensations are very different – and if you’re into wanting different sensations and experiences, then both the Endurance and Ice Jacks are great examples of the wide range of sensations you can get from Fleshjack.

To keep mine clean, I follow the instructions as provided by Fleshjack – Run warm water through the sleeve and for a deep clean, you can use isopropyl alcohol.  I have also turned mine inside out just to make sure it is clean.  After that, towel dry or air dry and you’re done.  You don’t want to use detergents or soaps as it will deteriorate the surface.

My only criticism of the product is needing to clean and maintain, but hey, a good jack off session that’s long and messy always involves a good clean up.

If you’re into edging from either side, definitely add a Fleshjack to your toy chest.

WCLS/b & WCCBB Contest Weekend – Calgary, Alberta

As the Eastern Canada Leather Sir and boy, Master Chuck and i will be attending the WCLS/b & WCCBB Contest Weekend

The Western Canada LeatherSIR/boy & Community Bootblack contest has been scheduled for November 18 – 20, 2011, with cool events happening all weekend long.  Check this page frequently, as it will be updated as more information is available.

Application Form

Any interested contestants can download the Application Form, which also cover the rules and regulations of the WCLS/B & WCBB contest.

Schedule

November 18, 2011

  • Meet & Greet: Meet the judges, contestants, and members of the Western Canada Leather community at this event open to any/all attendees.
  • Leather Swap: No gear?  Undergeared?  We can fix that.  Community members have donated their once-loved gear in order to raise money for the WCLS/B & WCBB travel fund, which will get our regional titleholders to the international contest, as well as community events within our region during their title year.  If you are interested in donating used leather, fetish gear, or toys for this event, please contact us directly.
  • Leather Demos: Community members provide a taste of  our play and lifestyle live on stage for all to see.

November 19, 2011

  • Workshops: More information to be announced in the near future.  Community members pass on their technical skill and knowledge in these small-scale, intimate  teaching engagements.
  • Western Canada LeatherSIR/boy & Community Bootblack contests.  LeatherSIR/boy contestants appear on stage in speech, jockstrap, and fantasy categories of their contest, while Community Bootblack contestants appear on stage for their speech while participating in the interpersonal skills portion of their contest.

November 20, 2011

  • Victory Brunch: Join winners, judges, producers, and community members for a victory brunch the morning following the contest.  Public participation in this event will cost $10 and space will be limited.

Judges

Judge bios and information to be released soon.

More Information

More info about the  International LeatherSIR/boy & Community Bootblack contests can be found at the official website: http://www.leathersir.com

Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy 2012 Contest Weekend

Dates & contest venue confirmed for ECLSb weekend

(Toronto) — The Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy 2012 contest weekend will run Friday, February 17 through Monday, February 20 (a civic long weekend in Ontario). The Presenting Sponsor of ECLSb 2012 is Steamworks, the official bathhouse of ECLSb.

The complete roster of events and the judging panel for the contest weekend will be announced at later dates.

The weekend’s main event will be the Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy 2012 contest, which will take place Saturday, February 18 at Goodhandy’s (120 Church St, at Richmond).  Please note, the contest will be held at a new earlier time! Doors will open at 12:30pm; the contest will start at 1:30pm sharp! Admission will be $10, with proceeds to ECLSb travel fund.

Winners of Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy will advance to compete at the International LeatherSIR/Leatherboy contest weekend, which will take place Thursday, July 26 through Sunday, July 29, 2012 in San Francisco, coinciding with the Dore Alley leather street fair on Sunday, July 29.

Contestant registration for ECLSb 2012 will begin October 1, 2011. Registration forms will be available at http://www.LeatherSirCanada.com. Email contestinfo@LeatherSirCanada.com more information. The Eastern Canada contest is open to leathermen and leatherboys from Ontario, Quebec and Atlantic Canada.

LeatherSIR/Leatherboy are “players titles” titles representing the erotic and sexual side of gay leathermen. The primary goal of ECLSb is networking and outreach, to help educate the community about leathermen, our erotic expression, traditions and history, and, of course, BDSM and hot leather sex!

Steamworks is the Presenting Sponsor of ECLSb 2012 (http://www.steamworksonline.com) and the official bathhouse of ECLSb. Goodhandy’s (http://www.goodhandys.com) and Leather Masters (http://www.LeatherMasters.com) are Community Partners in ECLSb weekend.

Since 2005, Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy contest weekend has been produced by Brandon Matheson (EC LeatherSIR 2004) and Dan Falkenham (EC Leatherboy 2004). For more information on ECLSb, visit http://www.LeatherSirCanada.com or emailBrandon@LeatherSirCanada.com

The team that works on ECLSb also produces the Rough House series of dungeon parties; check out http://www.RoughHouse.ca for more information.

www.LeatherSirCanada.com 

Rough House 2011/2012

Rough House is back!

Rough House is a fun, social dungeon-cum-house-party Sunday afternoon event for gay leathermen. The few leather dykes that show up at each event are also welcome and they enjoy themselves. But Rough House is decidedly targeted as space for gay leathermen and those that enjoy that environment. The atmosphere is friendly, laid back, frisky, sexy, and always social. Friends connect, and people new to the scene are exposed to the community, leather culture, leather sex and BDSM. Each Rough House events attracts a great mix of seasoned players and people brand new to the scene.

  • Sep 25 2011 @ Goodhandy’s
  • Nov 6 2011 @ Goodhandy’s
  • Dec 11 2011 @ Goodhandy’s
  • Jan 29 2012 @ Goodhandy’s
  • Mar 25 2012 @ Goodhandy’s
For more information go to RoughHouse.ca