A peak into my traveling wardrobe.

As some of you know I’ll be in Portland, Oregon again next week from Monday night through Thursday.

This trip is for business for a fairly large client. Most of my business travel is to the United States. While down here, I try to hit a Leather bar, sex club or bath house. I consider it doing my part to support and promote our Leather and Sex-Positive spaces. Sir allows me to do this as it pleases Him to see me sharing what I’ve learned over the years, as well as learning tricks from other for the benefit of His pleasure.

So what do I bring with me? Where do I go? How do I find out where to go?

Identifiers
I always have my boy tag with me and on me 24/7/365 when I’m not having to take it off due to a security check. Thankfully it does not set the metal detectors off, but it is seen in the full body scanners. On my last trip to Orlando, I forgot to take it off, and I figure next time I’ll ask to be felt up by security – there are some damned hot uniformed blokes out there. 😉

On business trips, I usually do not have my formal collar with me. I’m too afraid to loose something that priceless and meaningful to me.

I usually have a hunter green hanky on me, always in the right pocket. I’ll also flag other colours as appropriate as per my protocols with Sir and for my mood.

I try to wear boots as much as possible between my Doc Martens, Nick’s Custom Harness boots, my Wesco Bosses or, now, my Corcorans.

If I’m out, I will try to have one of my vests with me – prior to February, my pin vest, or my title vest where and when appropriate. I’ll also try to wear a local Toronto bar or event shirt. It provides a discussion point for people.

Play
Play wise, I try to bring smaller things – I don’t have a lot of room in my bag for lots of rope or large toys, but what I bring is effective:

• A leather paddle used to beat my nuts when jacking off – this is part of how I learned to take CBT
• Various ball stretchers
• Tit clamps – alligator style, slightly modified
• Cotton rope for tying nuts up
• Butt plug or dildo
• Condoms and lube in case I want to get fucked or a hot bottom daddy wants to take my cock

Other things
I bring my iPad to help plan where I am going from the hotel to the bar, bath house or sex club. I’ll also have some form of GPS device on me as well to help me get to my destination.

I’ll often check sites such as Squirt, Recon, Bear 411 and also ask locals if they have any suggestions. Squirt has a great collection of cruising locations along with reviews. Honestly, I couldn’t do without it.

Usually a few days before, I’ll update my location to reflect that I’m in the area and also specify what dates I’ll be there.

On my iPhone and iPad, I also use the Recon, Scruff and Grindr apps with varying degrees of success.

But as I always say, it’s often best to get out there and connect in person. I don’t want to waste time stuck and frustrated in a hotel room.

Moments While Traveling
I’ve had two funny moments while traveling over the years:

– Flying back from Sudbury to Toronto, they x-ray your bags with you there. I used to bring up a huge bag with all my toys and Leathers. They asked,

“What is is big ring thing?” I knew what they were referring to,
“It’s a ball weight.”
“No really, what is it?”
I looked at the guy in the eye and said, “It’s a ball weight.”

They actually know Sir quite well there as He travels with at least one bag full of toys when He flies.

– Flying out of Philadelphia, I decided to carry my bag in the plane and inside was a soft blue butt plug I use quite often. They pulled it out at the security checkpoint asking what it was. Sorry guys, you’re not going to embarrass me. I will point out they were respectful – much thanks!

– Driving to Detroit with Master Scott’s cane case in the back of the car, which is made from PVC piping. Yes, they opened it up and asked us what the canes are for, do we get paid to do what we do, etc…

I do recommend making sure that you are clear what is in your bags, vehicle, etc… As to not risk being turned away at the border. i.e. A piercing play kit left in the car will raise major eyebrows if you have no medical need for needles.

You can be straight up with border staff. For example, when Master Chuck, International Leatherboy 2010 boy Ian and I went to Detroit for Michigan LeatherSIR/Leatherboy, we did tell the border guard that we were going to judge a fetish contest. For CLAW, I initially said that Sir and I were going to a weekend conference and then clarified that it was the Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend.

So there you have it. That’s how I’m ready for action while in the road.

By the way, Steam in Portland has the most comfortable beds of any bath house I’ve been to in the 15 years I’ve been going to baths.  The first one I visited, incidentally, was Le 456 in Montreal.

I had the pleasure of being at Drenched Fur this weekend.  It’s a fun small Bear Run in Erie, PA; that centers around a bunch of hot naked hairy fuckers taking over an indoor water park and a hotel.

Okay, so definitely different from a Leather event, but I do like corrupting some of the more vanilla-oriented Bears out there, my confidence in sexuality actually does get some guys to think (and they do ask questions), and there are a number of kinky Bears who do attend these events – so it’s all good.  And I have fun with guys who have the secondary sexual characteristics that I usually looking for – facial hair, body fur and some bulk.

The first thing I have to say, is what’s a boy to do when all I want to do is suck cock but everyone wants to suck your’s because you’re one of the few uncut guys at an event?  Okay, okay – surely not complain and I’m not going to complain about that.   LOL!

I’ve been wanting to write a small guide on what to do with an uncut cock and this weekend pushed me over the edge.  Not a lot of guys know what to do with an uncut cock in the US – and no wonder given the circumcision practices in the US and Western Canada.

For the record, in Canada, the further east you go the more likely you’ll find uncut cock typically from Ontario, eastward.  Though practices are changing and circumcision is being seen as an unnecessary practice.  For example, in Ontario, you have to pay for it unless it’s medically necessary – i.e. your going to need a Penectomy.

I’m so glad I’m from the province of Newfoundland & Labrador. *GRIN*  You know, they should add that to their tourism campaign, but I digress.

Let me help you with your question of what to do with an uncut cock.  However, I need to put a disclaimer out there – this is not a definitive guide to uncut cock, but feel free to add comments if you have any additions or questions.

Obviously, different strokes for different blokes, but a few of these techniques can help set you up nicely for a hot time otherwise you risk Mr. Happy becoming Mr. Floppy.  And if you’re with a Sir who wants to get off, you definitely want to keep Mr. Happy, happy.

And thus, we begin my guide to uncut cock.

• Remember, on an uncut guy, expect the head to be much more sensitive.  It likely spends most of the day hidden behind the foreskin in a nice moist environment.
• Related to the above, if this is your first time playing with someone uncut that you don’t know – don’t rush by yanking the foreskin back and jacking off furiously or trying to suck the cock with the skin back.  While some guys really like this, for other guys it’s a complete turn off.  Take your time, get to know the guy’s cock in your mouth or in your hand, test things out and then go for it.
• Of course, if you know the guy you’re playing with then have at it!
• Some guys have a tight foreskin and it can hurt when the foreskin is yanked back.  It’s not so much the cock itself but the stretching of the foreskin.
• Don’t forget the foreskin itself has some great nerve endings so licking, nibbling or playing with a foreskin can just be as much a turn on as going direct for the head.  And if you’re particularly sadistic, small clothes pegs can be placed on it.
• Putting your tongue down a foreskin and playing with the head of the cock can be just as much a turn on as playing with the head alone.
• Getting blown with a foreskin up can, in some cases, be more pleasurable than all the way back.  Your mileage may vary.
• One technique I like to use, once I’ve established that the guy I’m blowing likes to be sucked with the skin back is to hold his foreskin between the tongue and the roof of the mouth, and as I go down – pull the skin back to jerk him off not only with my mouth but also his foreskin.
• Some guys also like a tongue flicking against the frenulum – that piece of skin on the underside of the cock that attaches to the foreskin.
• If you get a chance, and this goes for cut guys too, watch how a guy jacks off and by mimicking what he does, that’s one way you’ll score points and you may even take his pleasure to the next level.

There’s a running joke that I used to come with a manual with regards to my nuts that used to be a single page that said, “Don’t touch my nuts”.  Obviously that’s changed in the seven years I’ve been in service to Master Chuck and I proudly flag teal – the hanky colour for CBT.

There is, though, still a manual with regards to my own cock and foreskin.  The sensitivity has been worked on over time, but it’s one of those things that’s taking a long time to overcome.  So here are some interesting tips and info about my own cock:

• I am one of those boys with a tight foreskin.  It’s always been that way and I don’t blame a medical condition or anything like that – it’s just the way I’m built.  I believe this is different from phimosis which the foreskin gets tighter and tighter – which circumcision is recommended.  My skin is not getting tighter as time goes on.
• I did explore getting cut – either a dorsal slit or having the skin completely removed, in 1996, and the doctor asked me, “Does it work?”, to which my reply was, “Yes” – “Then don’t do anything”.
• My foreskin does retract fully when I’m soft so I can keep it clean.
• Until I was 21, I used to jack of using a double fisted method – I’d have to show you to really explain it.  Made for less mess and I could catch the cum in my foreskin (some guys do find this hot).  This was long before I learned the joy of rubbing the cum into my chest and belly.
• It wasn’t until my first boyfriend said, why don’t you jack off with one hand, and I did one night while living in residence, while studying in England and it was one of the most mind blowing jack off sessions I ever had.   I haven’t gone back ever since and now it’s really weird to jack off the way I used to.
• At that time my foreskin was VERY sensitive because I never played with it so it was around that time I got used to just playing with my foreskin.
• So for 11 years of jacking off, my head never saw the light of day  until sometime in my 20s.
• I HATE it when a guy yanks back the foreskin on my cock as the first thing he does in play, assuming it goes all the way back, while jacking me off or blowing me.  It hurts and in a way that will see me go soft very quickly.
• I don’t mind if a guy lightly pulls the skin back while jacking me off – that’s hot.
• Orally, I don’t mind a guy lightly pulls the skin back.  Just don’t concentrate on that for too long because I will go soft – again it’s not very pleasurable for me (unless that’s the point).
• Don’t assume that the head has to be showing for pleasure.  I get WAY more pleasure with the skin up.
• Interestingly, I have no problem with a guy putting his tongue or finger down my foreskin and playing that way.  I figure at some point there may have been some trauma as a kid that has associated exposing my head with discomfort.  I have no idea what that was.
• When jacking off, I actually have no issue pulling the skin back – that’s how I’ve been known to hit walls, Sir in the chest (especially when gagging on His cock), myself in the beard and mouth, etc…
• When I pump, something I’ve done on occasion and getting more of an interest in, my skin does retract fully though it is quite uncomfortable.  I am using this as a way to stretch my foreskin – and there are other ways that the skin can be stretched.  I even know of cut guys who re-grew their own foreskin, so stretching is possible.
• I used to be squicked by sounding long before I tried it, but after my first time, the sensitivity I do experience on the outside of my cock is not the same sensitivity I experience inside my cock with a sound.
• When fucking (with a condom) I actually have no issue with the foreskin retracting either while putting the condom on or when it naturally gets pulled back during the fucking motion.  Yeah sometimes I feel the skin pulling and it hurting, but it can add to the sensation.
• I love giving guys their first time with uncut cock.

So there you have it.  My recommendation is to start out slower, learn what turns your partner on and then have at it.  And of course if you’re as sadist or masochist, what does it matter? *GRIN*

I hope this helps – if you have any additional comments, please feel free to register and leave comments.

I’ve been pissing on myself since I was a kid.

There I said it.  That was the start of me being kinky and this is the one thing I started early.

My britches with a yellow stripe on the right. Flagging, proudly, as a piss bottom.

In May 1996, I stayed with a very hot Bear in London, a total furball, a Canadian now living in the UK who was breaking my 10 month not-self imposed abstinence from sex.  His neighbours were a VERY hot Bearish couple who were kinky – Leather, rubber, piss, you name it.  Me?  I was a fairly naive Bearish guy hungry for anything and I was horny as hell.

Well my piss play with other guys does not start there, but I was intrigued and I thought the guys were hot. I was also quite judgemental.  Scott and I had gone back to the UK in 2001, Scott’s first time in the UK and I remember saying something about, “Oh they’re in to piss” in a rather judgemental way.  Despite the fact that I had been pissing on myself since I was 8 years old or so.  I have to admit, I’m embarrassed by my behaviour at that time, and in some respects I do let it haunt me.  Since that time, I have grown up and learned considerably.  And hey, I’m now part of the converted.

It wasn’t until 2004 during my first weekend with Master Chuck that we were out at Zig’s, the one and only gay bar in Sudbury, Ontario; and he passed me a bottle of his finest piss.  I had a grin that said, “No body knows I’m drinking my Sir’s recycled beer piss out of a beer bottle at this bar”.

After finishing the bottle, we were back at his place when I finally had a chance to taste His piss straight from the source – and it tasted like buttered popcorn, I kid you not.  And yes, I’m hard thinking about it.

I think my favourite piss moment was standing outside the bar in Sudbury, needing to take a piss, telling Sir and he told me to piss right there in the middle of the street.  Meanwhile redneck guys in pickup trucks were driving by and there’s a big wet mark going down the left-side of my jeans and a stream going down the road. *GRIN*

Another favourite moment was while Scott and I were living at the house I grew up at.  We were holding a housewarming party, and then a housewarming dungeon party for our kinky friends and Leather family.  I was put in a cage, chained up on my back, funnel to my mouth and pissed on by several people at the party.  That was fucking hot!  Especially Sir’s Leatherson who kept on pissing and pisssing and pissing and pissing on me.  Man he has a big bladder.

Sir’s recommended drinks include water, beer, cranberry juice, and root beer.  We tend to switch between drinks alternating with water, beer, and one of the others.  For cleaning out before a night of piss play, water and green tea can help.

Unless you’re a masochist or a sadist, coffee piss is not recommended for those who are piss bottom beginners.  As for me, I’d have no issue taking Sir’s coffee piss – yes I’m that dedicated to His piss.

One other thing you need to be careful of is what medications someone is on, if you’re going to drink.  The medication may be metabolized and excreted in urine which is then transferred to the sub through ingestion.  It can happen with antidepressants, HIV meds – pretty much anything foreign to the body.

Try taking a multivitamin – notice the colour of your piss a few hours later.  I don’t recommend drinking that either.

But hey, pissing on someone is always an option.

As for pissing in someone – you do have to be careful and there are a few good articles about the risks, out there.  Some factors include:

• Cover up – while piss may be cleaner than spit, it’s not 100% sterile and you can still transfer STDs and even the meds you may be on.
• Can you piss with a hard on?  Many guys can’t so how do you stay in?
• Wounds and sores?  If you’ve just fucked or even fucked hard there may be open sores up your partner’s ass or on your cock. Again, don’t forget to cover up.
• Don’t try to empty your whole bladder into someone.

And this is by no means a comprehensive list.

So there you go – a brief history of piss in my lifetime.