“Don’t touch my nuts”
I was at Muther’s Guest House, the site of many after parties and kinky horny nights above the Toolbox, probably 9 or 10 years ago, and was with the man I now call Sir. He was rubbing bunny fur across my nuts and it was, at the time, the most intense sensation I had ever felt.
In fact it was too much for me, he stopped the play and that was it for the night. Funny, because as a kid, I used to rub soft materials across my nuts all the time.
Thankfully that did not deter Sir from contacting me some 4 or 5 years later asking me if I wanted to play – hell yeah and I was wondering if You’d like to tie me up, Sir? *GRIN*
CBT, or Cock and Ball Torture, is something that I have learned to enjoy both from a top and bottom perspective. As a top, for me it’s about getting to a man’s primal fear of having their cock and nuts hurt. As a bottom it’s about giving my nuts to someone else for their pleasure and learning to take more pain.
It took a while for me to learn how to accept Sir’s pain and revel in the bliss of that pain. My training included:
- Seeing Sir’s nuts tied up
- Tying His nuts up
- Feeling His hands on my nuts
- Feeling His nuts
- Seeing the pleasure He gets from CBT on both Himself and on others
- Over time linking CBT to jacking off making it that much pleasureable
- Using ball stretchers – Leather, neoprene, silicone
And that’s the start. Needless to say, that set me down the path to really enjoying CBT from both sides. And believe me, I’ve done some things that I never thought were possible on me. *GRIN*
I did it because at the time it was a challenge, and it genuinely was something I wanted to explore and see what all the fuss was about. And needless to say, I found pleasure in pain.
Check out this article in Xtra from November 2007 about CBT. Thanks Nancy for interviewing Dan and me. Also check out this article in Xtra from November 2008 on Pervertables.
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